Superior communication
skills can better your chances for success in attaining your educational goals,
success in achieving you professional or business goals. There are several
skills related to communication but speaking is the most frequently used skill.
Speaking is used twice as much as reading and writing in our communication.
These techniques will
help you speak with confidence.
- Speak out loud.
The best way to improve your language skills is by speaking the language. There is no substitute for practicing with real people. - Develop
intrapersonal communication.
Think in English. Talk to yourself in English in your mind. Plan your day in English. Talk about things you see in English. For instance, talk about the weather while walking on the road.
e.g.: “Oh, It’s so hot today. Should have brought umbrella to avoid the scorching sun. The road is so narrow and dirty. Who puts all this trash on the road? I hope I reach office on time today. Why isn’t the bus coming? Been standing here for so long.” - Try to
imitate/emulate/reproduce/mirror/copy the speakers you admire.
Listen to speech or dialogues and repeat it out loud. Repeat it until you feel satisfied. It will be fun and when you do it frequently, you will start enjoying it. This will help mouth, lips and vocal chords get into action. This will also help in losing the mother tongue influence and gaining good pronunciation. - Watch News.
Journalists are very good communicators.
The news channels try to be succinct because more words costs them more money. Observe the choice of words of the journalists, guests, experts, correspondents who try to put forth their argument in a convincing and persuasive manner. Observe how they present a story in a structural manner. - Pick a topic to
talk about.
Pick any topic and start speaking. Talk about the articles you read. Express your thoughts on issues like Deforestation, Climate Change, World Hunger and Poverty, Global Warming, Global Financial Crisis, Human Population, Environmental Issues, etc with your friends. You can even talk about your morning. - Paint a picture
with your words.
Go to flickr and describe the photograph to your friend. Try to paint the picture with your words. Speak about the contents of the picture, the expression of the people. What do you feel when you see the picture? Does it remind you of something? Try to express yourself. - Watch the TV shows
you like.
Watch television shows like Seinfeld (any show you like; I am just a big fan of seinfeld) with subtitles to see how the thoughts are expressed effectively and concisely in humorless or humorous manner. Watch anything you enjoy. It is important that you enjoy what you are watching. Observe the body language, emotions and expressions in connection with the speech or dialogues.
These are some of the best comedy shows:-
- Amazon.com: Seinfeld: The
Complete Series: Jerry Seinfeld, Julia Louis-Dreyfus, Michael
Richards, Jason Alexander, Ruth Cohen, Wayne Knight, Larry David,
Norman Brenner, Heidi Swedberg, Estelle Harris, Jerry Stiller, Liz
Sheridan: Movies & TV
- Amazon.com: Friends: The
Complete Series: Jennifer Aniston, Courteney Cox, Lisa Kudrow, Matt
LeBlanc, Matthew Perry, David Schwimmer: Movies & TV
- Amazon.com: Two and a Half Men: Season
1-8: Two & A Half Men: Movies & TV
- Amazon.com: Big Bang Theory: Seasons 1-7 [Blu-ray][Region Free][UK Import]: Johnny Galecki, Jim Parsons, Kaley Cuoco, Simon Helberg, Kunal Nayyar, Mayim Bialik, Melissa Rauch: Movies & TV
For people who
like to watch documentaries:- Top Documentary Films.
- Listen to podcasts.
Listen to radio programmes.
Listen to any topics you like. You can download the podcasts to your portable devices and listen to them anywhere, anytime. - National Public Radio –
Most of the programmes have transcripts which are immensely helpful.
- BBC World
Service (The Newsroom) station of BBC Radio.
- University of Oxford podcasts –
Academic podcasts to get familiar with academic settings.
- Buy audio books if you like to listen to
books being read. Harry Potter
- Download the lyrics
of the songs you like and sing along.
Everyone has a little singer in them. You can do this when you are tired and taking a break. - Watch youtube
videos you like.
- Speak
English With Misterduncan – This youtube channel has
videos with subtitles.
- Learn
English – engVid
- English
with Jennifer
- Learn
English with Let’s Talk
- Watch TED talks
which has brilliant lectures on all kinds of topics. This is one of my
favorite TED talks. Sir Ken
Robinson: Do schools kill creativity?
- ASU Origins Videos
- World Science Festival Full Programs
- Q&A –
Lots of debates on variety of topics.
- Grow your
vocabulary.
Improve your vocabulary to communicate effectively and efficiently.
How can I improve my English vocabulary? - Read these books to
supplement your speaking practice.
- Read more.
Exercising without having food will not be helpful. Think of reading and listening as input to your brain and speaking and writing as output from your brain. So get more input to your brain by reading and listening.
Read from a variety of topics, genre and authors. Don’t restrict yourself to a single author or topic. - Learn, Apply and
Improvise.
There are always three steps involved in the process. Learn, Apply and Improvise. So by reading and watching you will learn but you have to apply what you learn by speaking and listening to real people. And when you start applying what you learn frequently you try to improvise. That’s the way to improve. - Speak Online.
If you do not have anyone in your vicinity to practice your speaking, use the website SpeakAlley.com to speak online with other learners. I have started adding English vocabulary to the website to help learners improve their vocabulary.
The way anything is developed is through practice, practice and more practice. Keep practicing. Tomorrow’s victory is today’s practice.
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Answers from Quora:-
** In order to start speaking, you need to start
speaking.
** Luis M. Gonzalez, 269 upvotes by Quora User
This
answer is not comprehensive at all, but a complement to what others said here.
1) No matter your English level, just talk! This may sound stupid, but it's not. When learning a language (as well as other skills) perfectionism is sometimes an obstacle. Becoming fluent comes with practice, there's no other way, and FLUENCY IS MUCH MORE IMPORTANT THAN ACCURACY (this point is extremely important).
2) Avoid stammering at all cost. There's nothing more annoying to a native speaker than hearing someone stammering or pausing while trying to find the correct word in his head. It's much better to make mistakes (as long as the message is delivered) than being correct but annoying.
Think about Tarzan in the movies. He speaks like, well, as Tarzan. But we all understand him! Making yourself clear is your most important goal. It doesn't matter if you do it as Tarzan. Search for perfection later.
Imagine you are a bar tender and someone tells you "me need beer". It's an awfull English, but it's effective. This guy already achieved his first goal.
Every language has a subset of roughly 300 words that are needed to communicate effectively with others. Anyone can learn them in a very short period of time.
Perfection comes with a lot of reading, listening and practice. I'm afraid you need time for this. There's no fast track. You can have a very good English level, academically correct and even elegant by only reading and listening a lot.
1) No matter your English level, just talk! This may sound stupid, but it's not. When learning a language (as well as other skills) perfectionism is sometimes an obstacle. Becoming fluent comes with practice, there's no other way, and FLUENCY IS MUCH MORE IMPORTANT THAN ACCURACY (this point is extremely important).
2) Avoid stammering at all cost. There's nothing more annoying to a native speaker than hearing someone stammering or pausing while trying to find the correct word in his head. It's much better to make mistakes (as long as the message is delivered) than being correct but annoying.
Think about Tarzan in the movies. He speaks like, well, as Tarzan. But we all understand him! Making yourself clear is your most important goal. It doesn't matter if you do it as Tarzan. Search for perfection later.
Imagine you are a bar tender and someone tells you "me need beer". It's an awfull English, but it's effective. This guy already achieved his first goal.
Every language has a subset of roughly 300 words that are needed to communicate effectively with others. Anyone can learn them in a very short period of time.
Perfection comes with a lot of reading, listening and practice. I'm afraid you need time for this. There's no fast track. You can have a very good English level, academically correct and even elegant by only reading and listening a lot.
But full perfection comes with full immersion. That means, living with people that only speaks English for a considerable length of time.
My experience:
As you may have noticed, my English is far from perfect, but I never, ever had a problem while travelling and working around the world.
I had a couple years of formal education (about three hours a week) while in primary school but I wasn't very interested in studying). It was at the age of 15 when I became a fan of martial arts and started reading "Black Belt", and American magazine.
In
10 years later, I travelled for the first time to an English speaking country. I visited
I was nervous because I thought my English sucked, but soon after my arrival, I was having a conversation with a taxi driver. It was Ike "hey! I can do it!".
To make the story short: I got bored in class, and I was so excited of being in Boston, a new city, a new culture, that I spent the whole month going out, having fun and meeting people. It was the best thing that could have happened to my English. My confidence skyrocketed.
I learned a few things from this experience...
I used to make pauses while talking, trying to figure out the correct word in order to be accurate, and people seemed to get impatient with me. It happened a few times until someone directly told me that it was annoying.
Then I learned that being succinct is extremely important.
Every sentence has a subject and a verb. If you are in trouble, just think about your subject and your verb. Forget about conjugation or time verbs, just do it the
If you are lost in a city and you are about to lose your flight, you need to get there fast and you don't know how to, what do you do?
Just find someone and say "taxi, airport".
I travelled to china 3 times for work, and I had a piece of paper with a few critical words written down, of course, just their pronunciation.
Believe me, I moved around like a fish in the water...
P.D.:
By the way, if you like TV comedies, I highly recommend watching "Seinfeld" in English (and if possible, with English subtitles).
Why? Simply because these characters talk in an unusual way for TV. They all talk very clearly and with an excellent pronunciation.
Besides, this show is an excellent way to get used to common idioms of every day talking.
I believe this is probably the way most comedies do on TV. I wonder why it sounds so different than movies or other shows...
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